Sistah', so you've decided you want to marry. When looking to find the man of your dreams, the one who you want to be with forever. Let's start with a qualifying question that we all miss. "Are you a man who wants to be married now." Six months ago, Nick was engaged to Victoria's Secret model Seltia Ebanks. So it should be no surprise that after a brief four month courtship, he and Mariah are married. Hello! Nick was a man who wanted to be married... now. So ladies this is the first question we should be asking. Because no matter how wonderful and perfect that man you meet is... He has to be want to get married now. If not, move on. It's just that simple.