The Women All Men Hate, Irrespective of Race!

Written By The Fly Guy

It’s time to officially clear the air. There seems to be this common misconception, which suggests that men have lower standards when choosing a mate. That couldn’t be further from the truth. In fact, men are a lot pickier than we lead you to believe. To prove this point, I’ve decided to share “Five Types of Women That All Men Hate.” So pay close attention, and if this sounds like someone you know, then that may explain why they can’t seem to keep a man.

1. Ms. “Stick In The Mud” This woman never seems to have any fun … ever. Her idea of a good time is probably a quiet evening at home reading the encyclopedia while eating a Lean Cuisine. On top of that, she doesn’t know how to give or take a joke, since she takes herself way too seriously. Will you relax … please?

2. Ms. “No One Else”Ms. “No One Else” wants all of your free time—every single second of it. As soon as the two of you get close, she stops talking to all of her friends and expects you to do the same. Some men may reluctantly agree, but that arrangement soon grows old.

3. Ms. “Something To Prove”Ms. “Something To Prove” has always worked hard to show the world she was capable of doing anything she set her mind to. And while the entire male population applauds her strength, we get kind of tired of her reminding us about it throughout the entire date.“I’ve got a good job.”“I don’t need a man to do anything for me.”“I’ve always been independent.”“I’m going to write a book encouraging other women to be strong like me.”

Honestly, we’d rather listen to a Paula Abdul Greatest Hits album than to sit through an entire evening of that.

4. Ms. “Read My Mind”For some reason, Ms. “Read My Mind” expects her man to know exactly what she’s thinking at all times. As a result, she constantly tests him, using his responses to gauge his level of love. This type of behavior should be avoided, as very few men are interested in dealing with the constant guessing games.

5. Ms. “Chatterbox”Communication serves as the cornerstone for all serious relationships. However, some women overdo it a bit. The problem with Ms. “Chatterbox” is that she spends most of her time talking, and none of it listening. Before long, this type of woman grows even more annoying than that one drunk uncle who always tries to hit on your female friends.

The Fly Guy Moral: So now that I have outlined the five types of women that all men hate; what now? Will you continue to hold out hope that he will one day change his mind and accept you as you are? Or will you learn the art of compromise and begin addressing those personal issues that aren’t conducive to a healthy relationship? I pray you choose the latter.

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Exercise 15 Minutes At My Desk: Step #2 To Getting That Promotion

It is happening to you. Every morning you are the first one in the office and the last one to leave at night, congratulations, this is step #1.

But that cute size three with the water bra is getting all the attention and has your promotion in her sites.

What to do? Sistah' we know you are too tired... to go to the gym, but you need to step it up! Here is a 15 minute routine you can do before any co-workers arrive or after they have all gone home. Fight fire with fire and Bring It!

Viagra For Women?... Putting the Fire In Your Desire

When I read all the recent articles on enhancing a woman's sexual desire I'm really confused about the medicine cabinet of cures. The one thing all the surveys do agree... is that men's Viagra will increase my orgasms and well, that's a good start.

It doesn't cure the big problem need, that being need, want, desire; just getting me interested in having sex in the first place. Sexually dysfunctional women in the United States are, well, mostly out of luck.

Unlike men, there are no approved drugs to take. If you go strictly by the rules, the best medical science has to offer is counseling, or a device that applies suction to your clitoris, or physical therapy for your vagina. While not to diminish these choices, where's that convenient, little blue pill for women?

That's what Joanne wanted to know. This isn't her real name, but she's a 26-year-old nurse at the Cleveland Clinic who felt no sex drive -- nothing, nada, zilch -- for eight years. She wasn't happy, and neither was her boyfriend

In the Journal of Clinical Psychiatry, Viagra was proven helpful for men who suffered from erectile dysfunction associated with the use of antidepressant medications.

In a current study, undertaken at seven research centers, they turned their attention to women. The study included 98 women -- half of whom received Viagra and half who received a placebo -- who were told to take the pills before sexual activity.

Women taking Viagra reported an improved ability to reach orgasm and increased orgasm satisfaction, according to the study authors. (Serena Gordon HealthDay Reporter)

This was the case with Joanne, but Viagra did not get to the core of her sexual dysfunction, that being desire to have sex at all. Read on as we find with Joanne 5 Ways to Get Your Love Life Going. by Elizabeth Cohen

With Patti Solis Doyle Now On Team Barack, Expect More Women And Latinos To Fall In Line

McCain Is Going To Need More Than Fiorino

Signs are beginning to indicate that many women voters who had supported Hillary Clinton's presidential quest are more quickly and willingly lining up behind Barack Obama than many analysts had anticipated.

And one conversion is bound to get a lot of attention -- the Obama campaign has announced that additions to its staff include Patti Solis Doyle, who for more than a year with undying loyalty managed Hillary Clinton's much criticized campaign bid.

While her signing on with Obama had been rumored for weeks, it's now official. Doyle will serve as chief of staff to his eventual vice presidential pick.

BREAKING: GORE TO ENDORSE OBAMA!!!!!!!

Jettisoned from Hillary's team during Barack's February streak of caucus and primary wins, Doyle she was singled out for much of the blame for a campaign that had not maximized Clinton's strengths in the race's early stages and then was seriously was short on cash during the Obama surge. Last week, the New York Times reported that since Doyle's departure, she and Clinton had not spoken.

Also on the list of new hires by Obama is another woman well-known within political circles: Stephanie Cutter, who served as head of communications for John Kerry's 2004 presidential campaign.

Cutter has been assigned to what could prove an especially challenging position -- chief of staff for Michelle Obama, expected to be the target of intensifying attacks from some conservatives.

Meanwhile, other than Democratic turncoat Joe Liebermen, John McCain's only sign of moving away from the dour, institutional WASP set is former Hewlett Packard CEO Carly Fiorino. Where are the brothers, the Latinos, the Asian women (other then Mr. Maulkin's baby mama Michelle) when it comes to signing the praises of the man I voted for in the California primary.

With comments like those coming from the political mainstays like Armstrong Williams and former Congressman J.C. Watts, this is not a good look for the GOP.

Michael Steele, former Lt. Govenor of Maryland, you're on your own Black man!

LIES AT THE ALTER... SISTERS LISTEN UP!

You would think that all you need is love, decency and common sense for two people to make it through life together. But that does not seem to be the case. Dr. Robin L. Smith's new book, "Lies at the Altar: The Truth About Great Marriages" encompasses the problem by revealing most of us go into marriage with many unspoken needs, unasked questions, fairy-tale assumptions and other hidden agendas that later manifest themselves in power struggles...

Perhaps most compelling, Lies at the Altar is about making an investment in yourself by not letting lies dominate your life. It is important to stand at the altar of truth and commit to plain and simple honesty. You will get the real you back as you leave shame and blame behind. It is a prudent investment that allows you to make wise decisions about how to spend your emotional, spiritual, financial and physical wealth. More of this review at COMPARE BOOK