Showing posts with label Lesbians. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Lesbians. Show all posts

Wednesday, June 18, 2008

Gays And Lesbians In The Black Community: Get Use To It!!!!

California is now the second state in the nation to allow same-sex marriage after the California Supreme Court last month held that a ban on same-sex marriage violated the state's constitution.

At 5:01 p.m. on June 16, 2008, gay and lesbian couples began getting married in San Francisco, Los Angeles and other cities. There were some African American couples among them, especially in Oakland, with its large black population and African American mayor Ron Dellums.

In the Beaux Arts splendor of Oakland's City Hall, dozens of people packed into City Council chambers to watch Dellums perform rituals for 18 same-sex couples. U.S. Rep. Barbara Lee, D-Oakland, served as one of the witnesses to the ceremonies. Each union was greeted by whoops, cheers and prolonged applause after the words, "I proudly pronounce you married under the laws of the state of California."

At a press conferenc, Dellums also offered congratulations to gay and lesbian couples planning to get married. "Marriage is a confirmation of the importance of love and commitment in a healthy society," said Dellums. "It is a fundamental right to which all people are entitled and I am proud that I can officiate the eternal unions of these Oakland couples."

Shidiva Black-White, 44, filled out paper work with her fiancé Sherri Black-White, 53, on a computer at the Alameda County Clerk's Office in Oakland, California so the couple could get married there.

Dellums said Oakland is "one of the most diverse cities in the country and we join in the celebration of this historic day of human rights for all people." The mayor said, "This is not about protest, this is about celebration."

Dellums and Lee are part of a cadre of prominent Black elected officials who have come out in favor of marriage equality. Governor David Paterson of New York issued a ruling authorizing his state to recognize same-sex marriages performed in other states, and Governor Deval Patrick of Massachusetts stood by his daughter as she came out as a lesbian and marched with her in Boston's annual gay pride parade last week.

Massachusetts is the only other state in the nation that allows same-sex marriage.

Alice Huffman, president of the California State Conference of the NAACP, has been described as a "forceful advocate of marriage equality" and the state NAACP filed an amicus brief with the California Supreme Court along with the NAACP Legal Defense and Education Fund. NAACP chairman Julian Bond has also been a longtime supporter of marriage equality for gays and lesbians.

Much of the media coverage about Black reaction to the court decision has focused on black opposition to gay marriage, and a recent report by the National Black Justice Coalition, an organization that supports marriage equality for gays and lesbians, found that blacks were more likely than whites (65 percent versus 53 percent) to oppose same-sex marriage.

That mirrors the 3BAAS Media Group poll we took on this site, with 37% of respondents fully supporting gay marriage, 58% ranging from indifference to strongly opposing, and 16% indicating that they were more concerned about the war in Iraq.

But Jasmyne Cannick, an outspoken lesbian and blogger, complained that the opposition only tells part of the story. In a published commentary in the Los Angeles Times, Cannick criticized the paper's coverage of the issue.

"[E]ven though Los Angeles is home to a plethora of respected black clergy that is affirming of lesbians and gays -- including Agape International Spiritual Center's Rev. Michael Beckwith, Rev. Eric Lee of the Southern Christian Leadership Conference of Greater Los Angeles and civil rights icon Rev. James Lawson -- those voices are almost never chosen to represent the voice of reason and African Americans on gay issues," Cannick wrote.

Tuesday, May 6, 2008

A Black Parent's Guide on What to Do and Not to Do When Your Child "Comes Out"


By Jasmyne Cannick

So after the principal in Memphis and then Tatianna, I've been giving a lot of thought to this never-ending issue of coming out as it relates specifically to Black families.

You'd think that in 2008, that parents would react differently when their son or daughter discloses information that nine times out of ten, the parents already knew, but as Tatianna's parents showed us all, that simply is not the case.

Many of us have been there and done that. Some of us are still getting dressed in the closet and have yet to come out. And behind us are generations to come of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender African-Americans that will some day find themselves where we once were, the point of no return.

I thought it might be worthwhile to hear from those of us who have been there before on the issue of "coming out" as it relates to the Black family, in an effort to catalogue our voices on the issue.

As sons and daughters, I feel that it's our voices that will make a difference with our families. Even those of us still in the closet, your voice is important too. They need to hear from us.

So with that said, I am going to leave this post open indefinitely to catalogue your input on what you'd say to Black parents who may be faced with having a son or a daughter "come out" to them. What did your parents do right when you came out? What did they do wrong? What do you wish that they would have said or done? How did your family's reaction to your coming out influence your relationship with them? How do you plan to react if your child is gay?

While coming out isn't relative to Blacks only, the purpose of this project is to hear from Black same-gender loving and transgender people on the issue. I'm not hating or diminishing the "coming out" experience for other races, but trying to keep the focus on the Black family and how being both Black and gay brings with it certain cultural nuances that deserve exploring.

Thanks!

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Tuesday, February 5, 2008

QUICKIE: I'M JUST THINKING, WHICH WAY DOES ANGEL LOLA LUV GO?

While Angel Lola Luv got her party on at NYC's Plumm nightclub last night, Felicia ‘Snoop’ Pearson of “The Wire” was trying to figure out if Miss Angel was supporting Barack or Hillary.

Something tells us Snoop is all about getting a woman.... elected!

Tuesday, October 9, 2007

Are You Really Tripping Over Alicia Keys Being Gay? If So, You've Just Found Your Exhibit A


Did you have any reservations or concerns that playing a gay characters was going to spawn rumors?

In the new issue of Complex Magazine, that's how the Alicia Keys interview starts where she talks about playing a lesbian in last year's film Smokin' Aces:

"What is this gay shit?" Alicia asked the director about the relationship between Georgia and her partner. Later, after reading the entire script, she welcomed the opportunity.And the more I read, the more I got it. I was like, "Wow, there's nothing people will expect from me less than this. And that's what I wanted when it came to the film. I don't want to be the singing, piano-playing 'girl role.' I want to be something that’s not who I am."

Not that there's anything wrong with it, but you have everybody and their mama believing that Alicia really gets down this way. What say you??? While your thinking, here she on the set of her new video in Harlem with the bunny and on the cover of the new issue of Ebony.

Wednesday, July 11, 2007

SHEMAR MOORE: IS GAY THE NEW BLACK?

The National Enquirer has the story, but what is actor Shemar Franklin Moore, 37, really doing at a gay beach... NAKED??? (As Seinfeld once said, "Not that there's anything wrong with it.")

CHECK OUT WHAT SHEMAR'S SAYING ABOUT THE PICS & BEING GAY
First "Gay" Presidential Debate To Take Place

Want more? The Mad Professah has a Black gay perspective you definitely need to check out!

Friday, July 6, 2007

WHITE BIKINI STUD & BLACK LESBIAN ARE TWO FIREFIGHTERS IN TODAY'S LEGAL NEWS


A volunteer firefighter took a deal yesterday after an arrest that got world-wide attention - not because he was driving drunk - but because of the wig and bikini he was wearing at the time of the arrest.

Steven Cole, 46, plead guilty to operating a vehicle while intoxicated, and disorderly conduct. The open container and public indecency charges were dropped.

Never in trouble with the law, Cole lost his job after he got stopped for suspicion of drunk driving back in April on his way to compete for 10,000 in a male bikini contest.

The married father of three, who's wife stayed be his side at all of his court hearings, faced the biggest punishment imaginable after the local story went global courtesy of the Internet.

"I think it's enough, isn't it, if you lose your job? [To] lose a line of work where he was a fireman where he enjoyed helping others," said Cole's attorney Charlie Rittgers. "Where he embarrassed his family and himself. I think that's enough punishment as it is," he said.

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Meanwhile, a Los Angeles firefighter who said she was harassed at work because she is African-American, a woman and a lesbian received a $6.2 million jury award Tuesday in her discrimination case against the city.

The Daily News is reporting that a jury ruled in favor of Brenda Lee, 39, after a two-week trial. It's the largest payout in a string of recent settlements of cases alleging discrimination and retaliation against women and minorities within the Los Angeles Fire Department. Lee is currently on unpaid leave.

Lee's attorneys had offered to settle the case for $4.5 million, but the City Attorney's Office had recommended against the offer.

The verdict is another blow for the city and a fire department trying to recover from what critics say was a firehouse culture of horseplay and permissiveness that sometimes crossed the line into race and gender discrimination.

A 12-year LAFD veteran, Lee alleged her superiors made derogatory comments about her and put her through grueling drills without proper safety precautions because of her race and sexual orientation.

She also said her locker was ransacked. Most of the discrimination occurred from 2002 to 2004 while she was assigned to the Chatsworth station.

Lee filed her lawsuit in 2005 along with two former Los Angeles firefighters - both white - who also alleged they faced discrimination and were forced to retire partly because of their age.

In other cases against the LAFD, the case of Tennie Pierce, a black firefighter who filed a discrimination suit after dog food was slipped into his dinner in what colleagues said was a prank, is headed for trial in September.

Saturday, June 16, 2007

STRAIGHT WHITE WOMEN FROM THE VIEW LOSE, LESBIANS GET THE LAST LAUGH!


Ellen Beats The View at Daytime Emmys

Not even Rosie O'Donnell and her big-fat-lesbian headline-grabbing year at The View could top Ellen DeGeneres.

DeGeneres's show won six trophies, including her fourth straight win for best talk show and third straight victory as best talk-show host.

Speaking about her View competition, the other gay daytime queen added, "I really am shocked. ... I thought Rosie brought a lot of new viewers to daytime television and it was interesting."

And with that, she decided she wanted to follow Rosie, Elisabeth and company and become more controversial, the Associated Press reports.

"I know this might not be popular and I don't care because that's what I'm doing," she said. "I just want to say it – I think Bob Barker is a quitter."

It was a big night for Barker, 83, who got the call to "Come on Down!" from DeGeneres to receive his 19th award for best game-show host.

Backstage, when asked who could fill his shoes as host of Price Is Right, Barker floated Rosie O'Donnell as a possible successor.

"I believe they're going to have a meeting with Rosie," Barker told reporters backstage, according to AP.

"She knows the show. There's no doubt in my mind she could do the show," he said.

"Now, whether they want a lady host, I don't know. I've never heard that discussed. As far as I know, they've only auditioned men."

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Monday, May 14, 2007

LESBIANS, GAYS AND MEDIA OH MY!


Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation Launches Advertising Campaigns In Minority-Owned Media Outlets.

GLAAD will first advertise in black-owned media running print advertisements for two to four weeks in The New York Amsterdam News, The New York Beacon, Los Angeles Sentinel, Chicago Defender, Oakland Post, Atlanta Inquirer and Dallas Weekly—newspapers with a combined weekly circulation of more than 1 million.

Internet ads also will run for one month.

"Visibility is key in communities of African descent because what you see are stereotypes that make it difficult for people to come out and for their parents to accept them being gay, lesbian, bisexual and trangendered," said Katina Parker, GLAAD's people-of-color media strategist for communities of African descent.

"In communities of African descent, there are sectors, churches and people who have the ear of the media and make it their priority to create negative messages about black gay and lesbian people," says Parker. "But the actual experience of [being a black gay or lesbian] is not ... any more controversial than it is in any other community."

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