Showing posts with label Elderly. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Elderly. Show all posts

Thursday, November 29, 2007

African Americans Ain't Crazy, We Just Have More Folks Suffering From Dementia


By large numbers, elderly African Americans are dealing with the silent epidemic known as Alzheimer’s. This isn't the first time we've heard this, with USA Today writing back in 2005 about how Blacks are more susceptible to the brain-wasting condition than any other group in America.

Despite this, the first in-depth study to interview African Americans caregivers on how they seek help in caring for people with dementia was just completed by Travonia Brown-Hughes at the University of Kentucky.
She interviewed 17 caregivers who had received confirmed diagnoses of Alzheimer’s for a family member. Although this seems like a small sample, in qualitative studies the researchers stop when they find people telling the similar stories over and over.

Over half of the caregivers thought the elder’s symptoms were the result of a stressful event, emerged as one theme. Typical was one man who told Brown-Hughes, his grandfather had died, and four years later they noticed their grandmother’s symptoms but thought: “Oh, it’s still the stress. Cause she was having to deal with probate court and all that. Had the cousins wanting their share. We thought the stress would go away…her memory would start to come back. And it got worse.” This response is usual for this group: the older person’s not recovered from the loss of a friend, or they moved house. Their symptoms are seen as part of a transient state, or as the product of natural aging. The man with the ill grandmother said he knew, “something’s not right but I really didn’t associate it with Alzheimer’s.”

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Saturday, October 20, 2007

BUT DAMN #240 REAL ESTATE: MAKING ROOM FOR SENIOR PARENTS

I love our house. I want to buy a second home for mom & dad,
close to us and new...

But damn ....

The new ones are all two story homes and my parents are 80 years old.

Welcome to the new millennium. You're a "Boomer"right, probably in your forties or fifties. Your kids are not out of the house and your parents or in-laws are living longer. You are now a big game hunter. Your ever elusive prey is ... a new one story house. Unfortunately for the last 20 plus years, with land at a premium and "McMansions" (the most popular, or profitable) type of home built, finding a single level place today with the amenities boomers demand is like finding the proverbial needle in a haystack.

Why is single level so important? Boomers are the first generation to have parents alive and well into their 70's and 80's, (and even 90's!) I know my grandfather was dead at age 57 of a heart attack, but his daughter (my mother) will be 81 this month. She travels, she gardens, she cooks, she gives parties, and her social calendar is so full that I must call her weeks in advance to have lunch with her. So I think the immediate answer is:

Buy a home in a 1950's neighborhood and do an extensive renovation.

These homes usually came with bigger lots, making it easier to push out as opposed to going up. This is also going to be a good project for "flippers." The market for single level housing is being ignored. Big mistake. Single level, no stairs is going to be a hot ticket. Building a brand new rancher in some states can be costly because of the price of land. Land use to be 10% of the cost of your purchase or decision to build. Now that land cost is between 30% and 40%.

You are definitely going to see those 1950 ranchers being snapped up. They are usually missing the big master bedrooms, and maybe one bathroom, but people are desperate to have that single level and are remodeling these houses like crazy, adding on the space they need. Some neighborhoods are completely unrecognizable as a result of this. This is the wave of the future.

Who's my target buyer? First time buyers are out "last time buyers are in!" First Time Buyers usually have limited cash, haven't established a lot of credit, they're still looking at sticker shock, going from renting to a mortgage payment and who can't really jump through the new hoops these mortgage companies and banks are putting up. Last time buyers usually have great credit, rental property, savings and cash from another house they are trying to get rid of. They have probably been in that other house 15 to 20 years. They bought while it was cheap, fought through those awful interest rates, and now willing to sell for a couple of hundred thousand in profit instead of the "max-max" younger sellers are looking for.

Buying the two story with the extra bedroom downstairs?? Well it's all about location, location, location ... location of the bathroom that is. That "powder room" down stairs next to the guest room/den is not going to get it. If there is to be a room for a parent on the first floor, there better be a "full bath" very close to that bed room.

Janet writes: Without getting into the economics of building the 'more costly per sq.ft. rancher', we are in a precarious situation now. With my mother almost 89 and mentally alert but non ambulatory, not only is one floor essential but the proximity of the bath facilities relative to the living areas are critical! We have a 'cape cod' style house with bedroom facilities on each floor, but the closest bathroom is 'miles' away from the living area.

Maria writes: It just so happens that I have my parents living with me. I would have loved a ranch, and in future I would still like one, but this time it actually works out for us to have 2 levels. My parents who are in their 80's have a master bed/bath on the first floor, and the rest of the bedrooms are on the 2nd floor. It gives me a sense of privacy. You can get along fine with your elderly parents, but at times it can be somewhat stressful. (Although, having them live with me is the best thing I've ever done.)

Lesson learned, keep the bath nearby. In closing there is only one exception to the one story ranch purchase or the two story with a master bed and bath on the main floor and that's my perennial favorite; ... the two story home with the mother in-law house behind or attached. And that my friends is the best of all possible worlds.

Inspired by Janet Guilbault, California Mortgage Expert thanks.

Tuesday, May 15, 2007

FOLK WHO DON'T GET IT: THUGS WHO BEAT AND ROB THE ELDERLY



A 22-year-old man allegedly not only carjacked 91-year-old WWII Veteran Leonard Sims on May 4, 2007, but --according to cops -- punched him repeatedly in the face and neck.

Authorities believe he apparently either had no idea that he was being recorded on video surveillance the whole time, or else he just didn't care in this brutal crime that was caught on tape in Detroit, Michigan.

Before driving away in the stolen car, police say Deontae Bradley, who has since been arrested, struck the elderly man almost two dozen times. Several times throughout the suspceted attack Bradley allegedly stopped and started to turn away, but each time he turned back to Mr. Sims and began punching again.

O.K. family - enough is enough. The elders in our or anyone else's community should NEVER be attacked, beatened or abused in anyway.

What is worse, people stood by - a total of five - and DID NOTHING!

One must ask:

JUST HOW DEEP IS THAT HOLE IN THE SOUL OF AMERICA?

Come on...aren't we better than this?

See video and victim reaction here.